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The Woman...you ought to love. from my book,Letting Go!

Women are beautiful, their charm is ever inviting. Their innocence is intact even at the age of 40. It somewhat feels that their souls are inhabited by ‘a little girls spirit’- Amidst it all they follow into the hunted hands within an aim of a pointed arrow.

Women hence require three A’s. Attention, Affirmation, Affection. These words are not mine. They are from the spirit of Joep.

Joep is a voice of lady reason. He speaks and the still heart of the lady listens.

The lady in a sense is me. But steps to understanding this Lady are hard cracking mathematics. So I urge you to kindly read her writing.

Joep says a lady needs ‘Attention’….... Attention is expressed by listening to her noticing her and complimenting her. Joep says a lady needs Affirmation. Tell your lady, you love making love to her. Say it! Don’t stop saying what you mean and feel.

Joep says show your lady Attention.

Study your lady. You know what she likes right? Then do exactly that, love her to bits. Bring her flowers; bring her the joys of life… whatever makes her happy. Chocolates sing to her, whatever shows her affection.

Do not get me wrong here, men you rock. But stop looking at our bottoms. Love does not equate the physical.

If it is all said, Joep advises that a man should treat his lady so perfectly that she will never think that there is any other man under the sun that can treat her better. In summary give her three A’s.

----------------------------------From my book, ‘Letting Go’----------------------------------

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  1. WACHIRA V.W-KApril 14, 2011 at 3:19 PM

    Nice! Emphasizes the need for us guys to understand ladies' heart needs and expression.

    It is claimed that men love with their eyes and women with their ears?? hmmmm, hotly debatable theory....

    according to "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"...... we communicate in different ways in the language of love..... the same word e.g "affection" may well mean something very different to a man compared to what a woman understands...

    ultimatly the "3 A's .... in a lady's understanding


    VALENTINO WACHIRA

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  2. WACHIRA V.W-KApril 14, 2011 at 3:48 PM

    "A good Head and a good Heart always make a formidable combination" ...... NELSON MANDELA

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